Meet a New Yorker actually worth your time.
Compatibility-first matches and real NYC singles nights where you actually meet — instead of a feed designed to keep you on your phone.
- Free for founding members
- Block & report from day one
- No pay-to-play matches
Founding members lock in every premium feature, free, forever.
Real compatibility, seven dimensions.
Values · Life vision · Family · Money · Lifestyle · Emotional · Growth
Built around women's safety
Dating should never feel unsafe. Every feature below is live today — and our safety roadmap is guided by the women who use Nonna Picks. Inclusive for everyone, designed so women stay in control.
Talk before you share your number
Send in-app voice notes — hear someone's voice and get comfortable without ever giving out your phone number.
Selfie verification
Members can verify with a live selfie and earn a badge, so you know a real person is behind the profile.
One-tap block & report
Block or report from any profile or chat. Blocking is instant and mutual — they can't see you or contact you again.
Only matches can message you
No unsolicited DMs. You're only contacted by people you've matched with, and harassment-by-volume is rate-limited automatically.
Emergency contact
Add a trusted contact for real-world date safety — kept private and fully under your control.
Safety Center
Plain-English guidance for chatting, first dates, and spotting scams — written for how women actually date.
A woman with feedback on safety? We build with you — write to hello@nonnapicks.com.
How Nonna works
Three steps from sign-up to your first real conversation.
Take the compatibility quiz
Three short sections across values, lifestyle, and personality. Stop after Part 1 — your matches already work.
See who you actually match with
Every profile shows a real compatibility score across seven dimensions, so you know why before you say hello.
Chat in-app or meet at an NYC event
Message your matches privately, or come to a local dinner, walk, or Match Night where they show up too.
Compatibility you can actually see
Every profile shows the real score across all seven dimensions — so you know why before you say hello.
Overall fit at a glance
A compatibility score, match type, and a radar view across every dimension.
Every dimension, spelled out
A real percentage per dimension — plus the specific differences worth a conversation early.
Depth no other app shows
A Green Flag score for healthy patterns, and a Relationship Readiness read on where they are.
Match Nights in NYC
Local dinners, walks, and singles nights across NYC — so the first conversation isn't through a screen.
Play Match Hunt at every Nonna event
Nonna reveals your top match in the room one clue at a time. Find them before anyone else does — only at Nonna events.
Use Nonna like an app
Add it to your home screen — full-screen, one tap, no App Store.
Native iOS & Android apps coming soon.
Ready to meet your people in NYC?
Joining, matching, and messaging are free. Start today.
Create your free accountAre you two actually compatible?
Take a 2-minute quiz, send the link to a crush, a match, or a friend — and you'll both see your real compatibility score. It's how Nonna matches, minus the guesswork.
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