You want a partner who's values-driven without being religious. Nonna's quiz captures this worldview directly and surfaces the matches who share it — or who deeply respect it.
For readers whose ethics come from reasoning and personal principle. Nonna scores values overlap separately from any religious framing.
You'd date a spiritual-but-not-religious partner if the values line up. Nonna's openness axis is scored distinctly so the door stays open.
For readers whose sense of meaning is grounded and non-religious. Nonna finds matches who share both the values and the frame.
You lead with values, ethics, and evidence — not with a religious tradition. Nonna's compatibility quiz asks about worldview explicitly, and secular is one of the answers scored on the same scale as religious and spiritual. The filter is yours; the app stays inclusive.
Compatibility on the Secular (non-religious) filter looks different depending on how central it is to you — Nonna captures the strength of the preference, not just its existence:
The relevant question(s) from the live compatibility quiz — the same instrument every member takes, scored on the same scale for everyone:
“How central is faith, spirituality, or your worldview to your daily life?”
Five-point scale, weighted as a dealbreaker signal — captures how much faith actually shapes how you live, not just how you identify.
“How important is it that your partner shares your religion, spirituality, or worldview?”
Five-point scale — captures your preference on shared faith without imposing it.
“How open are you to a partner from a different religious or cultural background?”
Ordinal — from "I prefer the same background" through "completely open," so the match respects your actual openness.
Nonna Picks is an inclusive AI matchmaker for NYC singles — for readers of every faith and none, every intention, every lifestyle. This page exists because secular (non-religious) dating is a real search intent and Nonna genuinely serves it — as a filter you control, never as a gate we impose. Not seeing the fit you want? Try one of the sibling filters in the chip row below; the internal graph loops on purpose so no reader gets funneled.
The dating loop is in-app: match on compatibility, message inside Nonna. When you're ready to meet, we run Nonna Nights across NYC — small, curated singles events where your top matches in the room show up. Play Match Hunt at the event and Nonna reveals your top match one clue at a time.
Take the free Compatibility Check — send the link to anyone in NYC and both of you see your real compatibility score with an archetype breakdown. Same instrument as the app, compressed to a two-person read, no signup required.
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